Today Is A Gift. Why Do You Think It's Called The Present?

Here we are, fully "in" 2021. March is here and there are signs of change (hope) all around us. I mean I haven't packed up my winter clothes just yet but the days are getting longer and I see glimpses of spring when I take the time to look. If you have a moment, go outside (or look out a window), what do you see?

One A-HA moment I had early on in my yoga journey is finding the present moment. Yes, there's a lot of talk about the importance of "staying in the moment" or "being present" but that is hard to do most of the time these days, at least I think it is.

In the beginning, "being present" just seemed like a typical airy-fairy thing I would hear in a yoga class with no guidance around it. "Be in the moment," easier said than done... am I right? 

It wasn't until someone really broke it down and gave some real-life context around it that I was able to make a connection. When we simplify it, it's just that, a simple concept. However, like most things in life, it can get complicated fast. Here's how I like to think of the present moment.

One. The present moment is like a snowflake. Each moment is unique, a one-of-a-kind experience that comes and goes.

Two. Your breath. With each cycle of breath, you are experiencing a new moment, a moment, that can never be repeated. Now happens as you breathe in and now happens as you breathe out.

Simple right? So why is it so hard to stay in the present moment?

Even "in the before" being present was hard. Do you ever feel that your thought pattern is always in the past? Do you ever feel that your thought pattern is racing you into the future? The past has already happened, we cannot change it and the future is yet to be written so how are we to know what will happen! Typically, one gets stuck in the past or the future and loses sight of being in the moment. Being in those stuck patterns limits our ability to cultivate a sense of the "being" in the here and now. This mindful practice of being present is just that, a practice. So if the examples above seem to need some back up perhaps the following will help.

A. Cultivate your present moment. Back in January, I mentioned my blog post about setting an intention (NOT a resolution). It's a simple journaling exercise to uncover your intention. Well, you can use this guideline for cultivating a sense of being "here and now" for today, tomorrow, next week, 2021... you get the gist. Take a look at the blog post.

A New Breath. A New Day. A New Page.

B. Meditate on the moment. I use a simple Take a look at the blog post. can you even remember that far back, we embarked on Ok, you are thinking... what's the point. Have a listen:

Setting An Intention - Guided Meditation.

So if life is a series of moments, with each cycle of breath you are in a new moment that will never be repeated then ask yourself, "how do you want to be in the here and now?" What do you want to cultivate in the here and now (you can also extend that question into your day, week and year!)?

Now more than ever it seems important to "be here" because one thing the past year has taught us, at least me, is where you are right now is the only place you can REALLY "be".

I hope the above helps you, inspires you, and empowers you to cultivate the present as you want it to be. As my father-in-law used to say (R.I.P), "today is a gift, why do you think it is called the present?"

I look forward to the next time we connect.
Be well. Take care.

Don't Forget To Do This Today... Tomorrow, Or Everyday!

I was reading an article this weekend, its headline, "The Nation Is Holding Its Breath." Yikes! My thought pattern went something like this...

• Oh no that's not good!

• The fight-or-flight (stress) response is activated.

• The body will start to tense up soon.

• The heart rate and blood pressure increase.

• Stress hormone levels rise (cortisol is release).

• Blood is pumped to the limbs (to prepare for fight or flight).

• Blood moves away from the organs, limiting or shutting down function.
  

The above was simply reactions just at the top of the mind. There is a slew of physical, emotional, and physiological reactions of stress and anxiety. 🤯

No dah! people are holding their breath these days. I have found myself holding the breath plenty over the past year, haven't you? It's common especially during times of stress and anxiety. Who hasn't been stressed or felt anxious recently? 

In our yoga practice breathing is an essential part! Pranayama, the practice of breath control (simply put), is one of the eight limbs of yoga focused on the breath. It can be used as a tool to bring the body back into balance and activate the relaxation response. Who doesn't need a little more relaxation these days?

I wanted to share a simple pranayama technique called Dirgha Pranayama. Also known as the Three-Part Breath. This is a simple technique to promote relaxation and a feeling of groundedness. You can do this A-N-Y-W-H-E-R-E! Heck, I have done this practice standing up waiting in line at the grocery store. Seriously, you can even do it on the couch! It takes less than 7-minutes and can sustain you throughout the day. Give it a try and tell me what you feel!

Breathe well. Take care.
Kristen

PS. If you are curious about meeting me online check out my 2021 series class schedule. All classes are being held via Zoom. Don't worry if taking a yoga class online is new to you, I walk you through it step by step.

PSS. If you are interested in connecting with me, for private online sessions (another silver lining) feel free to reach out.

Celebrate It All!

Yesterday I woke up giddy like a kid on Christmas morning but Christmas has come and gone. You see yesterday was my son's 2nd birthday! His existence is a huge, I mean HUGE, gift. The journey into parenthood was a loooonnnngggg, bumpy ride filled with heartache and pain but I will save that story for another time! This is a season of joy and magic, am I right?

We have been talking to him about his birthday for some time and even though he would give us blank stares when we talked about his last birthday he seemed to be connecting the dots (at least maybe two dots, I think). It's a special day, a day to celebrate! From the first morning greeting to the last kiss at bedtime, which was wwwayyy too late, we wanted him to know it was a special day, a day to be celebrated. If you want to see my bundle of joy, check out my Instagram (yes, he's all over my grid... ha!).

It's "easy" to celebrate the big moments or those silver linings moments or even the aha moments. However, in 2020 it seemed hard to celebrate anything. It was either a day that was too heavy or guilt would set in. After a while, I decided things needed to be celebrated, no matter how small, to find hope and joy! At least that was my own thinking, switch a negative (pandemic) to a positive (sometimes just getting dressed). I have found quite a lot of joy-full moments celebrating the little things, like getting out of sweatpants, even if it's just to get the mail! What have you been able to celebrate in 2020?

Did that question stump you? Perhaps consider finding one little moment to celebrate tomorrow? It doesn't need to be a production with a cake finale (even though who doesn't love cake?) but something that sparks joy. Something that will ignite your light!

If that light seems a bit dimmer than you would like, I have included a meditation to help you find your light. Perhaps, this simple meditation can help spark joy or inspiration for moments to celebrate. Let me know what you come up with!

Finding Your Inner Light Meditation.

I look forward to the next time we connect.
See you in 2021!
Be well. Take care.
Kristen

PS. Do you want to celebrate 2021 together? For the month of January, you can join the Yoga Kula, a monthly unlimited yoga community, for $50/month (automatically billed with the ability to cancel anytime)! Check out my 2021 class schedule and Kula details! All classes are being held via Zoom. Don't worry if taking a yoga class online is new to you, I walk you through it step by step.

PSS. If you are interested in learning more about my virtual private session, corporate, and teams yoga programs, for 2021 feel to reach out.